A vintage metal box labeled "Odds & Ends" with a blurred background, photographed on April 14, 2023.

Round House Duck Canvas Bib Overalls. For heavy chores around the house or helping my friend slaughter chickens at his farm, I put on my Round House overalls. This Oklahoma company has been making jeans and overalls right here in the state for over a century. Their duck canvas bibs are tough, comfortable, and functional. What sets Round House apart is that despite being made in the USA, theyโ€™re really dang affordable. The duck canvas bibs are currently on sale for $60. If you need workwear that can handle actual work without breaking the bank, Round House delivers.

Freaks and Geeks. I missed this cult classic when it originally aired for a single season in 1999, but we recently watched it as a family and really enjoyed it. It follows a group of high schoolers in suburban Michigan in the early 1980s, and producer Judd Apatow nailed what the time looked and felt like: the clothes, the home decor (wood-encased TVs!), and the pop culture references. For our kids, the show was a window into teenage life before the advent of smartphones. The show and its characters grow on you as the season progresses, and thereโ€™s a human, good-natured vibe to the whole thing; the show is kind to its characters, even when they make boneheaded decisions (hereโ€™s looking at you, Lindsay!). The episodes donโ€™t tie things up neatly or pretend teenagers always learn their lessons, and I could tell our kids were often thinking through and evaluating the choices the characters made in a healthy way (thatโ€™s the power of fictional storytelling!). The show is frequently hilarious, though the humor is so subtle you hardly know why youโ€™re laughing (itโ€™s often out of sheer awkwardness โ€” Apatowโ€™s speciality). We were all bummed when we made it through all the episodes โ€” I wish theyโ€™d made more seasons!

90% of Men Are Not Toxic. We havenโ€™t talked much about โ€œtoxic masculinityโ€ on AoM because Iโ€™ve always thought the panic around it was overblown. My working assumption has been that most men are solid dudes, and the a-holes are just a small, loud minority. So why focus energy on the dumb-dumbs and treat all men like theyโ€™re inherently terrible? A recent study out of New Zealand confirmed my hunch. Researchers analyzed data from over 15,000 men, measuring eight markers of toxic masculinity โ€” things like hostile sexism, narcissism, sexual prejudice, and opposition to domestic violence prevention. Using statistical modeling, they found that only 10.8% of men displayed clear signs of toxic masculinity. The vast majority of men โ€” nearly 90% โ€” arenโ€™t toxic. Theyโ€™re just regular guys trying to do right by the people around them.ย 

Do the Work by Steven Pressfield. Weโ€™ve had Steven Pressfield on the podcast several times, and while his historical fiction is top-notch, I keep coming back to his books about the craft of writing. While theyโ€™re focused on writing, the advice applies across domains. Do the Work is my favorite; itโ€™s a short, pithy book that I revisit whenever I need a kick in the pants. Pressfieldโ€™s central concept is โ€œResistanceโ€ โ€” an internal force that keeps us from doing our most important work through procrastination, self-doubt, and distraction. Pressfield emphasizes that you donโ€™t need perfect conditions or complete clarity to begin; you just need to start and trust that the work itself will reveal what needs to happen next. At under 100 pages, itโ€™s less a book you read once and more a short manifesto you return to whenever you need someone to tell you to quit overthinking and just do the damn work.

On our Dying Breed newsletter, we published Sunday Firesides: No Regrets and Donโ€™t Just Read the Great Books. Read Schlocky Ephemera, Too.

Quote of the Week

Every human being is intended to have a character of his own; to be what no other is, and to do what no other can do.

โ€”William E. Channing

This article was originally published on The Art of Manliness.


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